Prevent Bullying – Knowing How To Set A Perfect Bully-Trap

§ April 29th, 2009 § Filed under prevent bullying § Tagged bully, Bullying, dealing with bullies, Emotional Health and Wellbeing, how to stop bullying, Internet Bullying, Kids and Teens, prevent bullying, Violence and Abuse, what is bullying Comments Off

If you want to prevent bullying, you really just need to know how to set up a nice bully-trap. It’s kind of like beating them at their own game, really. See, a bully is only taking advantage of you because they see you as a weak-minded individual who is afraid of them (the bully) and will not be willing to stand up to them. With that said, if you want to stop a bully, you will need to overcome your fear of the bully and just stand up to them.

The bully is not expecting you to rise up and put them in their place, but by golly if you actually do, you are liable to embarrass the bully to the point where they will put their foot in their mouth and cry like a baby. Remember, the bully does not expect you to turn the situation around on them, they are expecting you to sit quietly and allow them to take advantage of them.

A bully may pretend to act all big and bad when you begin to push back against them, but don’t buy into it, they are just hiding behind a mask. It is all an act for a bully; they have no real intentions of bringing any physical harm to you. A bully might bring your family into their attacks, but don’t let it arouse you to anger; just stand up, and put the bully in their place, and tell them to leave you alone. Shun the bully, and he shall not return to you, guaranteed.